I’m contemplating calling “Jen”’s parents and letting them know that Jen needs help and also that my daughter will not be flying to see them. I’m going to approach this in a serious and adult manner. I’m going to explain to them that firstly, if they get beligorant, I will hang up the phone, secondly, that their daughter is acting in a very self destructive way and finally that my daughter will not be coming out to see them for two reasons: I don’t trust Jen to behave responsibly; I do not appreciate them trying to convince Jen to go back to Washington and to take my daughter with her. In fact I should do it now.